It's amazing to me the kinds of things we get jealous over. Back in high school, I was jealous that my peers were able to take their heterosexual partner to school dances. I was so far in the closet that I didn't realize that my boyfriend was 1000% not who I wanted. I didn't want… Continue reading Jealousy


I’m a Terrible Patient

I'm a terrible patient. How do people let others take care of them in general, but especially when they're sick? That's such a hard thing to wrap my head around. Growing up, my Mom was the one who went to work and left my dad at home to "take care of me". I remember being… Continue reading I’m a Terrible Patient

Technology Concepts

I grew up with a brother who had an incredible imagination. Not just that, but he was the kind of guy who would try to back up his ideas with actual science to and try to make it real. He used to have notebooks full of doodles and ideas and concepts and wonder all the time… Continue reading Technology Concepts

“Good Wife”

Sometimes we hear random words or phrases that make our ears perk up and we direct our attention to Google. Today's phrase was "good wife". Google showed me articles about what men consider what traits make up a good wife. But today's main frustration came from client's talking about their wives, co-workers talking about their… Continue reading “Good Wife”

Coming Out Anniversary Questions

Two years ago, I admitted to myself that I'm gay. One year ago, I let that truth be known to the world. Today, I'm sharing the questions - and my answers - that I've been asked since coming out. Are you still gay? Hella. You see, I’ve paid for the lifetime membership, and Mama didn’t… Continue reading Coming Out Anniversary Questions

Short Story: Adventure with a Stranger

I’d been staring at the same blank page of notepad paper for almost an hour, with the bustling of the coffee shop in a blur around me. My mind was in a swirl, and every so often it would replay my last therapy session. The smell of coffee and warm muffins was all around me,… Continue reading Short Story: Adventure with a Stranger

Kissing Girls and Liking It – Guide to Lesbian Types

Long before Katy Perry announced that kissing girls and liking it was socially acceptable, there were labels on the different types of lesbians. Now, I typically like the term "labels" because that can trigger a varying degree of butt-hurt that I just don't want to deal with. I prefer the phrase "category and subcategory" when… Continue reading Kissing Girls and Liking It – Guide to Lesbian Types

Set of questions: 1

Do you prefer writing with black or blue pen? BLACK! Hate blue pens. Would you prefer to live in the country or the city? Country not too far from city. If you could learn a new skill, what would it be? To read tarot cards. Do you drink your tea or coffee with sugar? Tea… Continue reading Set of questions: 1

Short Story: The Other Woman

I was and still am, The Other Woman. When we first met, she was upfront with the fact that she was married, and could see no reason to leave her husband. I was fresh out of a relationship and not looking for a commitment past a night being tangled up with a beautiful woman. That… Continue reading Short Story: The Other Woman